MR INCONSIDERATE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So I met this guy, he seemed to have good conversation. Not someone I would normally date but I decided to stop being so discriminative...LOL

He washes and details cars for a living. Well anyway I let him take me to dinner. So I guess he is a hood boy and thought that red lobster was a dinner date. I said fine cause whatever…I am not really concerned about stuff like that. I like local places in case my dates are crazy.

Well let’s start at the beginning.

DATE ONE/MISTAKE #1

We decided to go to dinner and had a set time of 7pm. His car is in the shop (so he said) so I went his house. Well step back I met him at a friend’s house and believe it or not he had the nerve to still be detailing a car. SO TALK ABOUT MAKING A FIRST IMPRESSION. Needless to say I was pissed out of mind. But I was like ok…give it a chance. We then had to go to his house so he can shower and get dressed. The date was not actually on the way until about a little after 8. Of course I was annoyed but I was already there so I went ahead. HE TOOK ME TO RED LOBSTER. So ok that’s cool I guess, first meeting, just getting to know him. We actually had good conversation…it was fun. I dropped him off at home and he was like I really would like to go with you to hang out your friends because I had prior plans. I don’t take people around others until they are permanent but I felt bad the way he said it to me…I NEED TO BE MEAN ALL THE TIME!!!! Anyway I stayed a while, took him home and left. He didn’t try anything funny so ok……..

DATE TWO/MISTAKE #2

He wanted to hang out the day after…I wasn’t feeling it so I passed. He came at me again Sunday and I am thinking dam this nigga this thirsty. I didn’t really want to go but I did any way. Due to his lateness on Friday and I told him about it and I also asked him to tell me if he was going to be late and not have me waiting. Of course he agreed and he said he would be on time at 6pm.

1. I got to his house 6:10 cause I figured he would be late. He was not ready once again we ended up missing the 645 movie cause we didn’t leave his house till 6:50
2. Then had the nerve to come into the living room spoke to his cousin and didn’t say hi. I had to say “well hello to you to”
3. ON TOP OF BEING LATE, when I got in my car to head the direction of the movie theatre he was like no lets go the opposite way. I was like why? He was like I need to stop at checkers really quick to get some food for my cousin. I got annoyed I was like who told you I wanted to take you to checkers. WTF…he couldn’t ask if it was ok. He just jumped in the car like he ran shit. But I held my tongue from further chat because I know myself.
4. We get to the movies and he stands back and waits for me to go to the movie counter. Hmmmmm I was annoyed. But ok….I paid for both tickets I was like its only $20 and I would do it for a friend. But that was the last straw for me. YOU WANTED TO GO OUT. I should have just turned around and went home.
5. Then on the way home my gas tank was empty so I stopped at the gas station. You would think he didn’t pay for the movie he would offer to pay for the gas or at least pump the gas. This Negro sat in the car like he was a movie star and LET ME PUMP my own gas. Never has a date or any male friend let me pump my gas.
6. Then has the nerve to want a ride someplace for dinner. I was like I am not hungry. I took him for food, and dropped him off with a smile.

You know when I lived in NYC…I use to get mad at my brothers calling me Shorty or Mami and doing little annoying things. BUT MY GOD…moving to another state has made me appreciate them so much more. Now when I visit home and I am called Shorty or mami…I don’t give him play but I dam sure am a lot nicer. It’s better than being called aaayyy you….bitch and whatever else these blasted men in Florida call me. I never had these crazy date experiences either.

WHY I STAYED ON THIS DATE I DON’T KNOW….